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RailsConf 2018: Stating the Obvious by Ernie Miller Throughout much of this conference you're going to hear people state obvious things. Sometimes, they'll even tell you that they think what they're saying is obvious. Why are they saying them at all, then? It's obvious there must be more to the story, so let's examine what we mean by "obvious". You'll leave this talk encouraged and ready to apply what you've learned to better empathize with others. Through application, you'll see growth in both your professional and personal life.
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In his talk "Stating the Obvious" at RailsConf 2018, Ernie Miller explores the concept of what we consider "obvious" and how our perception can limit our curiosity and understanding. The central theme revolves around the importance of questioning the obvious, encouraging attendees to embrace curiosity, empathy, and self-awareness in their personal and professional lives. Key Points Discussed: - **Curiosity Vs. Acceptance**: Miller discusses how people, especially as they grow up, often stop asking 'why' and start accepting things as they are. - **Worldviews and Reactions**: Different backgrounds lead to differing worldviews, influencing how statements perceived as obvious may elicit agreement or dismissal. - **Practice Questions**: He encourages the audience to practice three key questions to challenge their instincts when confronted with obvious statements: - What is my initial instinct? - Why do I hold my opinion? - So what if this is obvious to me, then what? - **Personal Stories**: Through several anecdotes, Miller illustrates his journey, including his first job selling appliances where he prioritized customer well-being over profit, thus discovering his capability and sense of purpose. - **Value of Distributed Work**: He shares experiences from his time at Splice, highlighting how a distributed team can foster personal connections and flexibility in work-life balance, allowing him to be present for his family during critical times. - **Authenticity and Love**: The talk concludes with a powerful message about the significance of authenticity and love; he expresses that everyone is worthy of love, and living authentically can lead to deeper connections. Conclusions and Takeaways: - Staying curious allows for personal and professional growth. - Understanding different perspectives can enhance empathy and learning. - Embracing authenticity leads to genuine relationships and a fulfilling life. - Recognizing one's worth and value in the workplace promotes better environments and experiences. Overall, attendees leave encouraged to apply these lessons in their interactions and engagements, thus making a positive impact in both their lives and the community around them.
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